The Valkyrie pointed out that I hadn’t communicated my pronoun wishes to her at the time I wrote this post. So that’s straightened out and she’s using “them” for me. Everyone else… meh. As long as she does it, I’m okay.
And speaking of the “them” pronoun: My BFF’s teenage houseguest, M, is non-cis (probably genderfluid). My sister remarked on Friday that she had never been able to picture me having a kid until she met M. They and I were both quite flattered that Sis thought we’re that much alike. :D